It has been often said and proven that your happiness cannot be found in another person. Sure we
involve ourselves, develop, build, destroy, reconnect, disconnect, etc from others on a continuous basis,
but yet those relationships do not define who we are as individuals. More so it highlights our social
ineptness.
For a long time I was involved in a relationship with a guy who had a troubled past. We were complete
opposites and totally wrong for each other. Yet I tried to stick it out because I didn’t want to fail at love,
being accomplished in so many other areas, and felt socially pressured about being in a relationship,
particularly for someone “marriage” aged.
Fast forward ten years later and I’m still not married. Neither do I have any children. But I have reached a
level of emotional maturity where being married and having a family is not an overwhelming priority but
would be a welcomed balance to the beautiful chaos known as life.
Getting to a single greater me in order to treasure the awesomeness of my future You.
