Submission is defined, in terms of relationships, as the action of yielding to the will or authority of another person. In fact, I would venture to say submission is one of they key ingredients to a successful, long term marriage. Many of the married couples i’ve known over the years have attested that “submission” was a uphill battle at times, meaning, transitioning from single minded self to a family unit was not easy. A lot. of love, hard work, determination and support poured in by both individuals are some of the basic essentials needed to grow a marriage relationship.
So why are single minded men requiring equally single minded women to submit?
Going out with someone you are interested in romantically or sexually is considered dating. I believe requiring submission from someone your just “dating” is asking for blind submission. This form of submission is requiring the other party to dive all in to an all consuming, relationship, a tsunami of emotions and feelings, with no commitment or tangibles in sight. This type of situation is emotionally draining and should be avoided at all cost. After all, you are not a “place holder”, for the one they’ll give their love to freely. I also believe blind submission takes the fun, excitement and adventure out of having a great time, meeting new people and building relationships with others romantically or not.
Having open conversations and setting the record straight can avoid misunderstandings. Something I wish that I had done more of.
Thank God I have learned better.
Always remember You are great!
You are special!
You are worthy!
Your happiness is King. Settling for nothing but the best is an option. Peace.
